Don’t know whether because of my face, my voice, my attitude or my style..people easily share things with me. It can be their happiness, sadness, problems, situations, questions or puzzle, but, mostly it’ll be their problems. According to them, they feel comfortable talking to me, my way of approach makes them poured their problems easily to me..and I just want to say…THANK YOU…because by listening and responding to your problem, it makes me more mature in handling my own problems. I have list out how you all face and solved the problems and how it affected me….
Some of you never took any steps when there is a problem, but you rather took a step back and think what to do. You sit down at one corner, jog down all the pros & cons of the problems. Thinking a good way to solve the problems. It takes time, by the time you found the solutions, it’s either already too late or the problem just solved itself. I learned two things, first, that when I need to think how to solve my problem, I have to think fast. If I’m the guilty person, I must quickly ask apology. Second, it’s good to take time and find the solution because it will prevent you from making decision that you will regret.
There are also some of you that love to keep quiet and swallow everything. You don’t respond to the person you are angry with or the person cause you trouble. You believe that the truth will surface one day. You don’t defend yourself and never attempt to clear you name. You just let people around to judge themselves whether you are guilt or not. One think I admire is your patient. This somehow remind me of myself, I noticed this is how I solved some of my problem. No wonder some of my friends say that I’m too patient until they think I should voice out some times.
So far, this is what I can tell about you all….later I’ll edit more…
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