do first then only say!!

I really should follow that. I have promise to my friends that I will stay and study together but I went back home. Dont know why, but the feeling to be at home so uncontrollable. Sorry friend..i will buy chocolate for you...

do you love you friendship?

It’s not easy to build a friendship...a lot of things will be happening. If you love your friendship, you should try to solve the problem instead of leaving the friendship. All the problems that you face in the friendship is one way your friendship being tested....the more effort you put in solving the problems the more its show that you love the friendship...We all have reasons for we have done, its not a duty that we have to accept all th reasons..just understand it. When it come to solve problem...find what is the problem and solve it...not telling all kind of stories. Hope you realize it and try to solved problem in a more nice way...Dont lose your friendship because of egoism.

berdoalah~

learn from my friends...

Don’t know whether because of my face, my voice, my attitude or my style..people easily share things with me. It can be their happiness, sadness, problems, situations, questions or puzzle, but, mostly it’ll be their problems. According to them, they feel comfortable talking to me, my way of approach makes them poured their problems easily to me..and I just want to say…THANK YOU…because by listening and responding to your problem, it makes me more mature in handling my own problems. I have list out how you all face and solved the problems and how it affected me….

Some of you never took any steps when there is a problem, but you rather took a step back and think what to do. You sit down at one corner, jog down all the pros & cons of the problems. Thinking a good way to solve the problems.  It takes time, by the time you found the solutions, it’s either already too late or the problem just solved itself. I learned two things, first, that when I need to think how to solve my problem, I have to think fast. If I’m the guilty person, I must quickly ask apology. Second, it’s good to take time and find the solution because it will prevent you from making decision that you will regret.

There are also some of you that love to keep quiet and swallow everything. You don’t respond to the person you are angry with or the person cause you trouble. You believe that the truth will surface one day. You don’t defend yourself and never attempt to clear you name. You just let people around to judge themselves whether you are guilt or not. One think I admire is your patient. This somehow remind me of myself, I noticed this is how I solved some of my problem. No wonder some of my friends say that I’m too patient until they think I should voice out some times.

So far, this is what I can tell about you all….later I’ll edit more…                                 

my friends~~